Success starts in the head, and it’s simple: to succeed is to serve. Anyone who succeeds does not do it for his ego as such. It is impossible. You don’t have success for yourself because it doesn’t lead to anything really deep. A success becomes complete when you help someone to succeed. The happiest people are successful people who share their success. A life or executive coaching can certainly help you improve your personally.
An autograph in the archaic shrine of Apollo at Delphi told: “Know thyself”. But what is this knowledge? How can you achieve this knowledge and what would you do with it? These questions are the very essence of psychology. Some psychologists liken everyday life to a plane in which we wear different masks or play different roles in front of different audiences. Indeed, the word character comes from the Latin word persona, which means mask.
Firstly, psychology is a relatively young science, it dates from the end of the 19th century, an Austrian doctor named Sigmund Freud was the first to speak of the conscious and the unconscious as well as of psychoanalysis. He then laid the first foundations of modern psychology. Then there was John B. Watson with behaviorism who explained to us that the behavior of human beings is the result of learning. At the starting of the century, Jean Piaget with his philosophy of rational thought permitted us to create the link between Watson’s behaviorism and Freud’s psychoanalysis.
Then there was Abraham Maslow with his pyramid of human requires and Carl Rogers with his humanist theory which underscored the importance of effective hearing and the significance of making a meaningful relationship between the client and psychologist.
We see the world through our eyes, and our character qualities examine what we see. So, the world is not what. Everyone sees the world according to their personality. Carl Jung, Sigmund Freud, and Alfred Adler, these three friends of the beginning of the century, who laid the first foundations of our modern psychology, also saw the world each according to their personality succeed.
According to Freud, the purpose of a person’s psychological growth was to find gratification in the world of external reality. While for Adler the psychological growth of a person was much more valued when this one managed to overcome the feelings of powerlessness expressed in the notion of inferiority complex. So, two different personalities two different worldviews.
More and more scientists think that theory of evolution of Charles Darwin can clarify our differences in personality. Jung admired Darwin, from his early days of researching personality types, he believed that different personalities had an evolutionary basis. It was clear to him that the human race had survived its extinction thanks to its different personalities. He believed that each type of personality needed, in order to flourish, to live in harmony with its own personality.
When gathered in groups, each personality type brought greater strength to the group as a whole, which allowed the species to survive. So, our world needs all personality types to survive and be better off. So, get executive coaching services from a professional motivational speaker for the betterment of your life.
I believe that one becomes someone when one manages to embellish the lives of others. By the same token, our own life is embellished too. The worst thing that can happen to someone is to end up alone on their deathbed because we never thought of others in our life. Because he did not understand how to give and love. It is, I believe, the worst thing that can happen to someone. I am convinced that love heals everything.